Heres my spin on the whole debate......
(having been raised military,been military,and now civilian.)
The military has its faults,granted,in regards to socialization but many of the same problems exist in the outside world (The ethics of Business). The military's faults,however,sometimes seem worse because they occur in an environment that, by necessity of the art of war, is more rigid or disciplined. How do you teach flexibility to a person that you might have to order to kill and must be able to expect him/her to follow that order? The morality and ethics of the military are more or less the same for the society in whole. The German Army (1930-1945) is a good example. The military reflected the societies belief in obedience to authority even when those actions were contrary to their morals. How did they deal with this conflict between the two? Denial. Most Germans ignored the rumors of atrocities and continued to support the Nazi's because they were in charge. Even the populace near the Extermination Camps did not look closely at what went on there and many were shocked or physically ill at what went on when the allies forced them to walk through the camps at the near end of the war and see for themselves the horror. During the Nuremburg trials the common defense was "I was ordered to do it". That was not so much a "cop out" of responisibly as it was the mindset of the army. Even today, the German society will follow authority and laws to the extent that the idea of crossing against the crosswalk sign even without any traffic doesnt easily occur to them. (This doesnt mean the Germans are so rigid that they dont question authority at times,there was even a german resistance during WWII).
For a military to function during war,for its members to get up and move under fire (a reasonable person would stay down
), and fire back with the intent to kill (we are all taught by society that killing is bad), they must have to some extent, blind obedience.
But the military is part of society and will reflect it in its structure and philosphy (read MEN IN ARMS by Preston,Wise,and Werner for a great discussion on the history of warfare and society from the Persians to the Cold War). This is reflected in areas such as what persons are permitted to service (Minorities and women) to what types of training are given (Our basic training for the infantry man is equal or greater than the special training countries like Iraq and Argentina give their special forces because these countries view troops as cannon fodder <IMO>)
Now back to your original programming.....