Wowsers, so much discussion and not one mention of the brilliant screen-writer
Charlie Kaufman. This being one of his three classic screenplays, along with
Being John Malkovitch (perfect film) and
Adaptation (maybe the only Nicholas Cage movie I ever liked?)
Anyway, yeah this movie has everything. It's funny, it's wacky and interesting and the central gimmick is interesting "would I go for that procedure?"
But what puts it over the top for me is it has a lot of good "real" relationship stuff in it. All that pain and heart-ache and hate and anger of a break-up. And in the end...seeing that overall, all those negative feelings are worth having because you experience so many great, blissful moments over a long time prior to that.
And another thing I love is that it's obvious they aren't meant for each other. They're basically completely the opposite and their relationship is far froom smooth-sailing. But usually in movies the two leads are perfect and meant to be, and they have this perfect relationship, but then one of them tragically dies near the end so the girls can cry while the guys roll their eyes. But this flick just strikes me so personally in so many lines, in so many scenes. It really gets to the core of how a break-up feels. It's just so...great. So bitter-sweet. So god damn beautiful...
When I'm going through a break-up, the first thing I do (okay, second thing after changing all of my computer and internet passwords), is watch this movie and cry my eyes out.
Unfortunately I've seen this movie a LOT over the years