Ok, finally got around to hunting up my copy a couple days ago, and finished it this afternoon. Took the quiz, 10/10 due to it being so fresh in my mind. Next month I'd be ashamed to think of what I'd get.
That being said, addressing a few of the topics...
First, the To be fair, the Old Man (and probably Heinlein) felt that most PEOPLE, not just most women, are damn fools. It seems to go something along the lines of: people individually can be surprisingly intelligent and capable, people as a group are stupid, humanity as a race is tough and resilient. His views are positive on the individual and on the world-view, but get it tied into pack mentalities, bureaucracies, government, and herds of people, and he's as cynical as they come.
As far as Mary's 'test' for the hag-ridden men, I can understand it in theory, but disagree with its application as a general rule. First, while Mary was certainly attractive, we were never given the impression she was the kind of woman who caused traffic accidents in the street, caused men to drool helplessly on themselves, or provoked fistfights over the right to open a door for her - at least, for any man other than Sam. Certainly, her encounters with other men never had any of them reacting strongly to her in a physical sense. Therefore, she's not the kind of woman that could walk into a room and assume 80% of the red-blooded straight men in there would react to her. Additionally, as previous posts have commented, elderly politicians who aren't on a dose of Viagra might not react to her, nor would gay men... so, a little weak point. However, it was a reasonably convincing vehicle that avoided more gadgetry and scientific futuristic voodoo, which is what would have been the substitute. It made for a better story, if not a perfectly believeable one.
The Station Manager resurrection also jumped out at me, but it was probably the only place where an inconsistently actively jarred me. The rest I could explain away or ignore in the process of suspention of disbelief.
You know, on the 'obedience' topic, I often got the sense that Mary was humoring Sam. 'Yes, dear' as a response to an argument she didn't feel was worth having, or as a statement of 'I knew already, glad you came around and realized it.' It almost should have come with a little puppy-like pat on the head, and a doggie treat.
As for a life-boat situation, define it two ways: One captain, or 'women and children first'. Who gets in the lifeboat, or how you command it once you're there? I'd say he definitely saw marriage as the former life-boat situation - protect and provide for your wife and children at all costs, even if it means your life. As to the latter, there's enough of his quotes in other novels to make me question any kind of single captaincy, such as 'Never tell a man more than he needs to know - it'll trouble him unnecessarily' or something to that effect. I can't think of too many situations where women ever did something they didn't want to do - unless it was to prove to a man that they were right in the first place. And, come to think of it, I believe that's almost exactly what is said by the end of the Honeymoon section. So, marriage is definitely not a one-captain situation.
And finally, on the nudity topic... I think by far the most interesting conversation on the topic is towards the end, when Sam discusses the 'after-the-war' scenario with someone whose name I can't remember, who was in charge of security for the lab. The investigator clearly outlines a world where nudity becomes a permanent way of living, twenty years down the line. Basically, it seems like clothing is described as an adaption to our environment, and when the environment changes, so do our clothing rules. I found it perfectly believeable, and his entire treatment of the topic - from beginning to end - to be fairly believeable, even in today's society. Some people were very reluctant, some were perfectly willing to be brave, and people followed in varying stages of reluctance. Some didn't follow at all, and occasionally died for it. When the press conference had to strip down, one person made a break for the door - and he didn't have a rider. Overall, excellent treatment of clothing as an environmental factor disguised as a moral view, which fails to stand up to a direct assault. One of the better-done parts of the novel, I thought.
And that's enough typing for being at work! Will pop in with more later, I'm sure. Now, to track down TCWWTW...