Let me add my thanks for this. I found it both instructional, inspirational and reassuring. I thought I was going a bit crazy and becoming obsessed when I found myself thinking constantly about my characters and their interactions - imagining them doing boring, everyday mundane things that have no real place in the story: getting ready on a morning, going to the shops, seeing a movie, etc. I'm glad this is a process that I'm supposed to let my subconscious go through!
(Or maybe I am a bit crazy and obsessed...?)
A lot of the points ring so true.
Again, many thanks for putting this down. I will be referring to it many times and think everyone that is starting out should come and read this.