Psychoanalysis: The Lannister Pride

Boaz

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I've been thinking a lot about Tywin Lannister, heck, all the Lannisters. My conclusion is that they need help in the head, serious help. Like a good thwack in the head... or therapy.

I'd like to have a thread that discusses the psychology of certain characters. I don't want to talk about conspiracies (you're shocked, I know), about who will ride a dragon, and who is your favorite. I want to post and read posts on the psychological/emotional/religious/mental aspects of characters. I'm not going to start by offering detailed analysis (I"m not qualified), but I think I'll just start with observations and questions.

I'd like to start with the Lannisters, specifically Tywin.

For the record, I'm not trained at all in any field of mental or physical health, i.e. I'm not a doctor, but I play one on the web. I seriously hope some of you have studied (in school or as a hobby) psychology... or better yet psychiatry.

Tywin Lannister was the eldest of five siblings... four boys, one girl. His father held a position of high authority and responsibility. His mother died before Tywin came of age. His father was seen as physically, financially, politically, and morally anemic. He despised his father's mistresses (whores). As soon as his father died and he assumed his father's authority, he ruthlessly set about to restore his vision of the Lannister name and power. He exterminated two noble families who defied him. He then accepted the position of Hand and effectively ruled the Seven Kingdoms. He loved his wife, Joanna. He had three children... the twins Cersei and Jaime and then Tyrion, a dwarf.

He believed strongly in hereditary rights, in the purity of racial breeding, in the distintion of social classes, in the honor and power of House Lannister, in patience, and in making examples of those who disobeyed him.

When Tywin's father died, his father's last mistress tried to walk out wearing the family jewels. Tywin took everything from her and turned her away with nothing, iirc. Tywin forced Tyrion's first wife to divorce Tyrion and to become a whore. He constantly berated Tyrion for visiting prostitutes. He forbade Tyrion to take Shae to KL and he proclaimed that he'd kill the next whore Tyrion took to bed. So after Shae's testimony that Tyrion took her to KL and to bed repeatedly... why did Tywin take her into his bed?

How emotionally distant is this man?

At one point, he needed to command the army and to run the government at the same time. He could not do both so he needed to choose someone to either play General or Hand. Kevan, Cersei, Jaime, and Tyrion seem to me to have been the most logical choices for either General or Hand. Tywin chose General for himself and for Jaime... and he bypassed Cersei to make Tyrion Hand of the King. He told Tyrion "You are my son." Later, when Tyrion demands his birthright Tywin tells Tyrion that Tyrion will never inherit the Rock. He used Tyrion's tremendous capabilities for his own benefit, but he'd rather hand over his legacy to a nephew.

Tywin split with Aerys II when Aerys went behind Tywin's back and made Jaime a member of the Kingsguard. In effect, Aerys stole Tywin's heir. Tywin spent the next nineteen years or so trying to get Jaime back. When Jaime declares that he wants no inheritance from Tywin, Tywin says "You are not my son." This was during Tyrion's trial. What was Tywin thinking? Was his entire life a waste?

What did he know about the parentage of Robert's children? Did he suspect Jaime? Was he shocked when Stannis' letter went out? Was he still in denial up to his death? To me, he seemed to cling to the belief that his high Andalish heritage would never produce incestous twins. I think he probably knew in his heart of hearts that it was true, but that he'd deny it with the strength of mind and willpower that he had.

I don't know that this man had a soft spot in his heart for anything but Joanna and Jaime. It does not appear that he had outlets of any kind for any other emotions than a little anger and a little vengeance. He bottled it all up. Tyrion, Jaime, and others remark at how they never saw joy, fear, sadness, or any other passion on his face. He was the absolute master of his emotions, his circumstances, his children, and in most cases... his world.
 
Hmmm... I like this a lot! Much better than grasping at old strings (not like I don't do it too :) )
I just took neuropsychology last year (i'm def not an expert!) but this stuff fascinates me.
The thing we must ask is why? What is the purpose?
When talking about Tywin:
Why turn against your own son?
Why sleep with Shae?
Why deny the truth (about Jaime as Kingsgaurd and Jaime and Cersei)?
What was driving him? Robert was dead and his grandchild was on the throne and it was relatively secure. What were his motives for his actions?
I'm really tired, so hopefully this makes sense.
 
More sense than my opening post. I should have mentioned Tywin's motives for his behavior (in the UK, should behavior have a U?). What gets Tywin out of bed in the mornings?

Pride, ambition, vengeance, anger, duty, familial heritage, or honor? Probably. I don't think love, justice, or righteousness drove him.

Did he love Joanna? From Genna's, Kevan's, and Jaime's memories he did. Did he love Jaime? From his gifts and his one emotional moment, I'd say he did. But I also think that love was more for who they were in relation to him. They were his wife and his first son. They represented his link to future generations of Lannisters. They represented his success in re-establishing House Lannister as the premier family in the realm. I think this man was all about Tywin Lannister, first and last names.

Did he love Cersei? I don't think so. When he proposes a new marriage for her late in ASOS, she screams something to the effect of "I am not a brood mare!" But that's exactly how I think Tywin saw her. Even from her conception, Tywin planned to marry her to Rhaegar. His scheme was to control the throne through Cersei. In that regard he valued Cersei's womanhood even higher than Jaime and Robert.

AKD, when you say "Why turn against your own son?" to whom are you referring... Jaime or Tyrion? He turned against Tyrion the day he was born. The primary reasons are for causing the death of Joanna and for being hideous. With Tywin's pride in his ancient lineage and superior breeding Tyrion was an abhomination. He used Tyrion's cunning as much as he could. But when a scapegoat was needed for Joffrey, Tywin was more than willing to cut his losses and proclaim Tyrion guilty.

Why did Tywin turn against Jaime? He did not do so until Jaime threw all of Tywin's hopes and dreams back in his face. Jaime tured on Tywin when Jaime was fifteen years old by joining the Kingsguard. He went behind his father's back... He left Tywin without a male heir (sorry, Tyrion does not count)... He chose Aerys over Tywin (even though Tywin was Aerys' Hand, they were rivals)... In effect, Jaime chose the Dragon over the Lion.

Yet, Tywin was ready to forgive all of this. When war broke out, Tywin gave Jaime command of the Lannister forces in the West. Even though Jaime took vows of forfeiture of inheritance, Tywin still called him "my son." Tywin had schemed his entire adult life to get his hands on a Valyrian steel blade... and when he finally did, he did not keep the sword for himself, but rather gave it to Jaime. And Jaime refused the gift. Jaime insisted that he would never take off his white cloak and settle for Casterly Rock. It was not until then, that Tywin turned on his son... but how can you turn on someone if they've already turned on you first?
 
I actually have no clue which son I was talking about-possibly Tyrion, but that was stupid of me- Tywin hated him from the get go. I personally was just surprised about how totally and completely he wished to ruin Tyrion.
Other than that, I guess the point I was trying to make is that when your child is regent and your grandchildren sit the throne, what else is there to need?

In the beginning, did he want to get rid of Robert, or was that just his twins' wish? I feel like Robert was a good pawn for him- it kept his daughter and her children securely on the throne, and though the king was incompetent that only would have made it easier for Tywin to control him. You mentioned that he only considered Cersei to be a tool, so I wouldn't think he'd really care about her dislike of her husband unless it led to something that affected House Lannister.

He needed to get rid of the other kings of the realm... Which had pretty much been done before his death, and as Stannis was far from hurting any of them at that time, I don't think he was worrying about that.

If I remember correctly, he made more than a few comments on keeping Joff in line- I thought everyone but Cersei was happy when he died. ;)
He needed to establish Jaime as an heir... (which wasn't happening, like you said.. he did try everything that he thought would work, though, so obviously it was a big motive for him)
what else?
I don't see this as getting power for power's sake- when you have it all there's no reason to go looking for more.
To tell the absolute truth, I never paid too much attention to Tywin- he just seemed like the archetype of powerful father to me. However, as I'm sitting here, I can't think of anyone else to talk of.
You mentioned his one emotional moment- what are you referring to?
Man I need to re-read these books- ever since I joined this forum I've felt like I missed a whole lot. :/
 
I was thinking of when Tywin admits to Tyrion that Jaime has been captured. By his own standards Tywin gets all emotional, "They have my son!" But by anyone else's standards he's totally repressed.
 
Shoot....sounds like my own father. So I dont think Tywin is too abnormal...oh except for the part where he sleeps with the whore that got his son convicted of murder and let her wear the symbol of his office in some twisted form of roleplay.....so, he's nothing like my own father. Least I hope not.
 
HAHAHA!! That made my day oh wow.
I don't even think I can say anything useful on this post because I'm still laughing.
 
I was just thinking about Tywin and Shae and I wondered if maybe he was so hard on Tyrion and his whores because he recognized it as a character flaw in himself, sort of a "me thinks thou dost protest too much" kind of thing. Maybe you guys can flesh this out a bit, I'll go mull it over.
 
Yup i agree with the analysis, he considered Cersei as "Just" a bargaining chip to gain influence for House Lannister, and in some way Cersei always tried to gain his acceptance, and i think most of her hatred for Tyrion comes from Tywin. Tywin hates him therefore Cersei hated him as young girl too.
<ups back to Tywin>

But yes i think he did love his wife and her death and that the child was a hideous little baby, lead to him being convinced that Tyrion is an embarrasment to House Lannister. As i think of it, All thats matters to Tywin after Joannas death is House Lannister, not his children, but his house and the survival and prospering, so that his legacy once he is gone is a strong house.

Well enough of my ranting and rambling, i better stop before i make even less sense....
 
All of the Lannisters seem pretty messed up to me. With serious issues affecting their actions. Tywin's sister, Genna, has lots of quotes about her families problems.

"It was hard for all my brothers. That shadow Tywin cast was long and black, and each of them had to struggle to find a little sun. Tygett tried to be his own man, but he could never match your father, and that just made him angrier as the years went by. Gerion made japes. Better to mock the game than to play and lose. But Kevan saw how things stood early on, so he made himself a place by your father's side."

"Father was himself a thirdborn son, and younger children crave the approval of thier elders. Frey sensed that weakness in him, and Father agreed for no better reason than to please him."

and of course the infamous, "Tyrion is Tywin's son, not you"

According to Genna, her father craved approval, Tywin was the most imposing of her brothers, and the only one to object to her father's plan, trying to protect the family even at the age of 10. Tywin's influence drove her other siblings to where they are now, Kevan basing everything he does on Tywin, I get the feeling that Tygett's anger probably led to his death somehow, and perhaps Gerion's joking did the same. Tywin's pressure on Jamie and Cersei probably cause an awful lot of their emotional issues, as his disapproval did to Tyrion.

Tywin seems to have killed his own cause if his purpose was to redeem house Lannister. His influence has harmed pretty much anyone that could have continued the family legacy.

I know my post is really unorganized, sorry, but my basic point was that all of the Lannisters are insane, and I put most of the blame on Tywin.
 
First off, kudos for making this thread.

Specifically on Tyrion's whore Shae, I reckon Tywin sleeping with her was basically the Alpha Male asserting his territorial rights. If women are seen as objects, then ownership of Shae was Tyrion's, until Tywin decided to demonstrate his power by taking her away from Tyrion.

I must confess I've got a degree in psychology, though little of it related to family relations specifically. Although a fantasy, the political and social nature of the world is pretty consistent with reality a few centuries ago. Women are generally seen as objects, and bargaining tools for diplomacy via marriage. It's only through male offspring that noble bloodlines can be continued.

Add into that Tywin's very strong reaction against his own father. Generally (this is very broadbrush) people either like their parents or dislike them. If you like them, you imitate, if you dislike them you not only don't imitate you often actively seek to go in the opposite direction. I think Tywin's self-control and ruthlessness came from a combination of natural predisposition, desire to see the Lannister name restored to glory following his own father's misrule and a profound fear of echoing the mistakes and weakness of his father.

I think he failed at the single most important strategic task he needed, which arguably should've been the easiest. A House with no heir is no real House at all, and Jaime didn't want to become heir. It's interesting that Tywin refused Tyrion Casterly Rock, as would seem to be his legal right. That was probably down to him being stunted and the cause of his own mother's death.
 
It's interesting that Tywin refused Tyrion Casterly Rock, as would seem to be his legal right. That was probably down to him being stunted and the cause of his own mother's death.

Or as Boaz had floated a few times now, the theory that Tyrion is indeed not a true Lannister and not Tywin's son after all. I agree it is far-fetched that she was rapped by Aerys but I'm not ready to totally discount it yet.
 
Was "rapped" by Aerys.....sure it wasnt beat-boxed, or maybe pop-locked? I kid I kid....pots and kettles and being a dark color and whatnot.

We all know Boaz is crazy, just crazy to think that Tyrion is a Targ. One leg of his argument (of which each leg is slightly more insane than the last) is the dragon has three heads prophecy that points to there being 3 Targs still alive. Well with certain knowledge that Dany is one, Jon is most likely one and Aegon is running around out there somewhere Tyrion is given the short straw Im afraid. But thats not what this post is about....

Does everyone really find that we really act contrary to our parents that often? Ive always been under the impression (from empirical personal observation, nothing scientific Im afraid) that people, even those that despise the way their parents raised them, still follow the same habits like some sort of automaton.

So Tyrions whoring and gambling and drinking ways really could just be extreme examples of what he watched his father doing on some level. Tywin may profess to be against whores to Cersei but the reality is more than a little obvious on some level to those who pay attention. Honestly I doubt a man of his power and position avoided women altogether since Joanna died. Just thoughts...
 
Gosh darn typos...see I even got some in this posting

I have nothing else to add on the real purpose of this thread so, speaking of rapped do you think 50 Cent will really retire if Kanye beats him in record sales? Personnally, I could not care. I'm more of a B-boys kind of guy myself. So I guess I did have something to add after all. I better go before Brian or Raven kicks my ...
 
Tyrion threatened Tywin not to use the word whore again. Then Tyrion demanded to know what became of Tysha and Tywin answered that she went "wherever whores go" and Tyrion shot Tywin.

Tyrion's whores... Tysha and Shae. Where did Shae go after her relationship with Tyrion ended? Shae went to Tywin's bed... now the comment "wherever whores go" takes on a new meaning.

I think Tyrion was born a *******, but he cannot even compete with Tywin for that title.
 
I've been wondering... who is Shae?

Mayhaps Shae was Tysha's younger sister or cousin. We know that certain families are fond of certain forms for their names. The Lannisters like TY- as in TYwin, TYgett, TYrion, TYrek... The Greyjoys like -ON, as in BalON, EurON, VictariON, AerON, TheOn, MarON. The Cleganes like -OR as in GregOR and SandOR. The Targaryens like the AE, but they also like -ERYS as in Jaehaerys, Aerys, Daenerys, Viserys. The Redwynes like HO- as in HOras and HObber. The Tyrells like -AS as in LorAS and WillAS. The Freys prefer WALDER as in WALDER, WALDER, WALDER, WALDER, WALDER, WALDER, WALDER, and WALDER. Anyway the point is that mayhaps Tysha's family named another girl Nysha, Mysha, Tasha, or Tosha... mayhaps to tell the second girl from the first they mispronounce the ending, thus changing the girl's name from something like Tasha to Tashae... Shae

Also, why did Shae leave her family? Her father turned her into his sex toy, right? Okay, we all admit that is wrong, sick, and criminal. But what if Shae's father knew she was not his child? That still does not make his advances right, but maybe slighltly more comprehensible.

We do know that Aerys was sadistic, psychotic, neurotic, and paranoid. We also know that he was unopposed in his wishes after Tywin resigned. He raped his own wife. Raping his own wife is hardly the start of it... how many other women did he have? Shae is around eighteen when she meets Tyrion. She'd have been a toddler when Jaime killed Aerys. What if Aerys fathered a ******* upon a woman and the woman tried to give the baby a Targaryen sounding name? The Targaryen sound is the AE. Shae.

Either way, if Shae was a relative of Tysha or Aerys, it gets Tyrion up to Jaime's, Cersei's, and the Targaryen's levels of incest. And if Aerys+Joanna=Tyrion, then this eases him into his upcoming marriage to Dany, his sister.

Why did Shae end up in Tywin's bed? If Tywin found out that Shae was Aerys' *******, he might enjoy getting revenge upon Aerys. Or mayhaps just the fact that her name sounded Targaryenish was enough to stimulate Tywin.

The Lannisters are so screwed up... I can't turn away.
 
Wow...so that would explain the news report I just saw that the city of Denver has run out of straws...Boaz has grasped them all...
 

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