I'm pretty much the same as Taly, in that I didn't really care much about Egwene for a long time -- she was the least interesting of the three girls -- and I didn't enjoy the Salidar storyline (that and the Perrin stuff seemed to go on forever in the later RJ books, and yet nothing really happened).
it seems both trite and naïve to believe that a girl barely out of the farmhouse could be granted so much power and wield it like she was born into it.
I had a problem with this too. The rationale for choosing Egwene as Salidar's Amyrlin always seemed somewhat contrived to me. However:
She has no experience, no background, and no rational reason to be wholly and unflinchingly devoted not to the White Tower but to some idealistic image of the White Tower that may not have ever existed. It’s completely irrational to see a character willing to sacrifice her life for an ideal that she has no real reason to embrace.
While I see your point, I also think it's entirely possible that a naive, impressionable young girl from the provinces could be wholly taken in by the trappings of power and grandeur, the history and tradition of the ancient and august society to which she has been admitted. New converts often make the most zealous adherents to a cause. I don't think it's necessarily unbelievable that she has bought into the Aes Sedai ideal so utterly. In fact, I think it can make perfect sense. For her, partly because of her youth and naivety, it
is rational that she should try to restore the White Tower to its ideal.
Therefore, how can she not be viewed as arrogant, self-righteous, and ambitious?
I have to admit, I often find her all of those things too, particularly in her thoughts about / dealings with the Dragon Reborn and Gawyn. But I also agree with Taly that she was badass in TGS.
I don't hate her (I'm closer to hating Elayne than her these days, to be honest, although even that has reached its high tide and receded somewhat). I'm ambivalent, I guess.
Nice title, btw. See you in the Black Sun.