Culture of immediacy that we live in...no desire to improve, no patience, no ability to hear the word 'no, that's not good enough' because we're brought up to live in a world where everyone's the same and equal and it's fluffy and amazing.
What was that syndrome recently posted here again, where the least capable think themselves most capable, and the most capable think themselves least?
I was going to write something recently, but thought it might sound too snarky.
Basically, the point would have been that lots of people can draw a bit, but would never imagine themselves as being able to compete with professional artists.
So why is it that when sometimes decides to try writing a story they think themselves capable of competing with the best?
I've been through this myself, so I'm not directing it exclusively at others.
In which case, rather than encouraging people who have a whiff of wanting to write, shouldn't we be brutal about the situation, and point out how much it requires to even try to get into the running?
I don't know about anyone else, but writing uses up all my spare time, it feels like work, I spend a lot of money on it reading around the market and research. This is not a hobby. But ... I am still not there. And unless I am ever signed up with a mega deal, frankly I would have been financially much better off if I had spent my time working at Tesco's instead of trying to learn to write.
If I didn't feel a sense of destiny, and that the writing was a major part of it, I would have given up ages ago!
Am not bitter, though, as I appreciate that trying for success takes hard work.