I'm right with you there on the bad memory. Mine's horrendous! Sometimes I get worried by how bad my memory is... but then I forget about it.
Aaaaanyway, with the braid-pulling that people here keep mentioning, I don't have a problem with it. TBH it's just one character, and she - and everyone around her who laughs - knows it's her flaw. It's even made a joke of once or twice. Every time Ny gets angry or frustrated, she tugs her braids instead of huffs or whatever else people do - it's what some women on her world do, cos they have braids in some places, and I suppose it's handy to tug, especially if she's grown up doing it subconsciously. I know I huff like a steam train when I'm miffed.
Plus, I've always had the feeling that Jordan did it intentionally and that the character, by the end of the series, will not do it because it shows how far she's come. I'm already seeing a huge change in her attitude in these later books, as with others (ooooh yeah, deffo some BIG changes!!!). And remember, Ny, in those early books, has a block on her connection to the Power. She can't channel unless she's angry - which she is, often, and has likely learned to be so because it gives her the ability to channel. And she's fiercely proud and protective of her fellow E(d)mond-Fielders, which doesn't help since they're put in peril most of the time...!
But yeah, if you didn't enjoy the book, there's little point going back to them. I never thought I would say that, but I've realised it from seeing people's reactions here. If you don't enjoy the earliest books enough to read on, no matter the idea that the characters grow up in the series as all characters do or that the plot gets SO epic and shocking, then the series is not to your taste. For all I know, Hoopy might change her mind about the series at the end of this book, too.
Aaaand... I feel bad that poor Hoopy's ended up having to give reports at the end of each book! Sorry! Hopefully this time she won't have to, since HareBrain and the others bowed out last time.
I have to say, however, it's been fun seeing your guesses, Hoopy! Oh, and I forgot to say:
SPOT-ON ABOUT LANFEAR!!! Heh. Well done. You're right about other guesses, too, but I won't say which until I know you've read them. Oh, and that moment when Rand wielded the tornado-lightning thing? Awesome.