WOHOOO!!! Seph and I have said this many, many times.
Very much in agreement with Boneman! The romances always felt forced. I mean, "Ginny, the little girl he has to save in book two and doesn't even notice.... BAM! She's so pretty and smart and every guy likes her and Harry wants her, too, for more than just a fling!" It's as if Rowling HAD to force characters together because, oh no, you can't have the series end without them all getting together! How often do *all* kids at school find their life partner???
There was a connection with Harry and Hermione. She cared for him deeply, and if Rowling's head had been in a different place, who knows how that would have developed naturally? Even if the characters would have taken a while to see it, I think they would have got closer in the end. And yes, Ron and Hermione bickered
too much, and a relationship is rather one-sided if a smart person doesn't have equal intellectual stimulation, support, and someone they can talk to. Ron always seemed rather... well, as if he had "the emotional [and mental] range of a teaspoon".
Oh, and that part with what's-her-name, the "won-won" girl? That always felt soooo forced, as if Rowling had to find a way to make Hermione jealous and so crushed together some random girl who didn't even seem realistic. Urgh. And the Krum part, where a gorgeous, popular star falls for the smart ["mudblood"] girl... that always felt badly done, forced, and, imo, unbelievable. The same as with Cho Chang. Who?! A random girl who doesn't feature other than to be a brief love interest who cries too much and doesn't really get a chance to shine? I get that most teens have hyper-hormonage going on, but seriously,
no one could control themselves and refrain from jumping at the first member of the opposite sex to pay them attention until their soulmate notices them?
Hmmm. Now, Luna and Harry... yeah, I suppose there was something there, but I'm not sure Harry could have put up with her
specialness in the long term, though it was VERY sweet of him to befriend her when others wouldn't.
But, saying all this, I still love the series TONS! It was just so humorous and fun and hooking.