I have been searching in vain for this novel for years. Vague memories: Paperback, thick, about a family (searching, lost, transported?) I remember the father and son sighted a girl in the forest who had no arms, but instead had wings. The father explained that you cannot touch a butterfly wing and disturb the dust on it. Somehow people were being changed so that animal or insect features were incorporated in a sinister fashion. I remember a dome with glass or crystal ceiling, and I want to say that a giant turbine or mention of Tesla was involved. I think the family might have been from the future, because I believe the mother taught the children to use thread as dental floss. Any help would be most appreciated!