I suggest DVDs.
I'm right there with you on the general sentiment - after
Buffy went off there was basically nothing at all on for quite awhile and, while I now watch quite the battery of shows (something like 8 or 9), no one of them comes close. Basically, that was a singular show and all you can do to come close to it is watch it on DVD (or the medium of your choice). Can't ever see it again for the first time but you can do something similar.
(Oh yeah, and of course watch
Firefly/Serenity stuff, too. That had potential - if only Joss hadn't signed a deal with the devilfox.)
If you really want a new thing and haven't already seen it, it's such a pale shadow but Jed Whedon is running
Agents of SHIELD and I think Joss is not totally unconnected to the show (all this via
The Avengers) and it has a functional/dysfunctional virtual "family" of people with a spectrum of talents which can combine to form something greater than the sum of the parts and has whedonesque moments but there's really just no comparison. It's kind of like something a little less than Initiative-level
Buffy but where the Initiative are the good guys.
Huh. First time I thought of it that way and that is deeply messed up.
On another note, (I've already mentioned this on the relevant thread) I just saw one episode of a new CW show called
iZombie which sounds completely awful, but so did
Buffy ) and, while it's also nowhere near meriting being mentioned in the same breath, it does feature a young woman (older than Buffy) who was living a normal life and suddenly was not living at all - now having a very weird undeath but also gaining spiffy powers and trying to Do the Right Thing. It's kind of like if Buffy had become a good vamp instead of the Slayer -
iVamp. But, like I say, while it may get better, it may also get awful. Might be worth a look for the
Buffy-desperate, though.