John Ross was born in the United States of America.
Depending on whether by accepting to be a Knight of the Word it is meant when he pledged to the Lady in the Fairy Glen, or when he took the black staff of office from Two Bears, he was either 'drifting' or 'sitting on his bed'.
Before going to the Fairy Glen and meeting the Lady, and accepting to be a Knight of the Word, John Ross travelled to England and Wales on his odyssey, being not yet 30 years of age.
Prior to that he drifted, having earned an undergraduate degree in English Literature, but then migrated to a series of different schools and graduate programs, not completing any (though twice he almost completed his masters), surviving on scholarships and grants, as his parents no longer supported him financially.
He travelled to England to learn more about his English heritage. He drifted through England, Scotland and after a year travelled to Wales. He stayed in a cottage owned by a friend outside of Betws-y-Coed. Ranging from the cottage, he came across the Fairy Glen on a hike. At the glen he encountered a fisherman, that told him to come back at night if it was magic he was looking for. The fisherman turned out to be Owain Glyndwr, Welsh patriot turned Knight of the Word, and a distant ancestor of Ross.
Ross meet the Lady at night, and pledged himself to her service.
Travelling back to the United States, he went back to his parent's house and waited, and as weeks went by, eventually began to doubt it ever happened.
Then as John Ross was sitting on his bed, O'olish Amaneh came to Ross and offered him the Black Staff. After a discussion, O'olish Amaneh told John to take the staff, which he did. When John took the staff, fire ripped through his body, and his left foot became twisted. The staff became bound to John, and John to it, becoming a Knight of the Word.
That night was the first time John Ross dreamt of the future, having accepted his duty.