Boaz
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First of all, I am not attempting to troll fans of Jane austen's classic. There are books that I cherish for characters, plot, and language and I would not see them disparaged.
My twenty year old nephew is reading Pride and Predjudice and I decided to join him. I try to constantly be aware of ways to interact with my nieces and nephews rather than lecture them, tell them to get off of my lawn, or share my glory days with them.
After thirteen chapters, I am not intrigued. I have failed to engage with P&P's characters and plot.
I believe that I fully grasp that P&P may not be only a romance as I thought. The opening passage sets the tone that the exploration of societal expectations and behavior are more of the focus than mere romance. Of the five Bennett sisters, I assume Elizabeth will remain at the heart of the story while the girls are compared and contrasted. Beatrice and Benedick from Much Ado About Nothing seem apt early comparisons to Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth. I assume that Lydia and Catherine's inexperience and impatience are dangerous qualities for marriage, whild Mary's reluctance to engage in real life and Jane's optimism without realism can led to unhappiness. It seems that Elizabeth's engaged intellect, real morality, and genuine humility will win out over Miss Bingley's pretensions and decieptful amiability. The bottom line is authenticity over self delusion.
Yet the thought of continuing does not excite me. The language is archaic... and feels stilted to me. It's been forty years since I've read Industrial Revolution era literature. Being forced to read a book for school always added a proper incentive to me finishing a book... but I don't have that in this situation.
Also, I find the social norms disorienting. The enforced formality of titles and surnames helps to ensure observance of laws by reminding people of social status. And yet after thirteen chapters, I do not know the first names of Mr. Bennet, Mrs. Bennett, Mr. Darcy, Miss Bingley, Mr. Hurst nor Mrs. Hurst. I know that Miss Bennett, Elizabeth, Eliza and Lizzy all refer to the same person... and the forced distance and the forced familiarity make the narrative style seem heavy handed.
I think the story will play out that Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth will prove to forge a relationship that can endure slander, assumptions, misinformation, sickness, and geographic distance, that Mr. Bingley's and Jane's relationship will suffer from those just listed circumstances, and that Catherine (and/or Lydia) will have a disastrous romance with an army officer. All that coupled with Mr. Darcy's pride without vanity, Elizabeth's common sense, and my failure to sympathize with any character, makes me believe that I already have all that I need from P&P.
The only reason to continue is so I may fully speak with my nephew about P&P. Should I just chalk it up to improper motivation or lack of appreciation for the setting and language? Please feel free to share any reason that I should keep going.
My twenty year old nephew is reading Pride and Predjudice and I decided to join him. I try to constantly be aware of ways to interact with my nieces and nephews rather than lecture them, tell them to get off of my lawn, or share my glory days with them.
After thirteen chapters, I am not intrigued. I have failed to engage with P&P's characters and plot.
I believe that I fully grasp that P&P may not be only a romance as I thought. The opening passage sets the tone that the exploration of societal expectations and behavior are more of the focus than mere romance. Of the five Bennett sisters, I assume Elizabeth will remain at the heart of the story while the girls are compared and contrasted. Beatrice and Benedick from Much Ado About Nothing seem apt early comparisons to Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth. I assume that Lydia and Catherine's inexperience and impatience are dangerous qualities for marriage, whild Mary's reluctance to engage in real life and Jane's optimism without realism can led to unhappiness. It seems that Elizabeth's engaged intellect, real morality, and genuine humility will win out over Miss Bingley's pretensions and decieptful amiability. The bottom line is authenticity over self delusion.
Yet the thought of continuing does not excite me. The language is archaic... and feels stilted to me. It's been forty years since I've read Industrial Revolution era literature. Being forced to read a book for school always added a proper incentive to me finishing a book... but I don't have that in this situation.
Also, I find the social norms disorienting. The enforced formality of titles and surnames helps to ensure observance of laws by reminding people of social status. And yet after thirteen chapters, I do not know the first names of Mr. Bennet, Mrs. Bennett, Mr. Darcy, Miss Bingley, Mr. Hurst nor Mrs. Hurst. I know that Miss Bennett, Elizabeth, Eliza and Lizzy all refer to the same person... and the forced distance and the forced familiarity make the narrative style seem heavy handed.
I think the story will play out that Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth will prove to forge a relationship that can endure slander, assumptions, misinformation, sickness, and geographic distance, that Mr. Bingley's and Jane's relationship will suffer from those just listed circumstances, and that Catherine (and/or Lydia) will have a disastrous romance with an army officer. All that coupled with Mr. Darcy's pride without vanity, Elizabeth's common sense, and my failure to sympathize with any character, makes me believe that I already have all that I need from P&P.
The only reason to continue is so I may fully speak with my nephew about P&P. Should I just chalk it up to improper motivation or lack of appreciation for the setting and language? Please feel free to share any reason that I should keep going.