I dunno; off the top of my head, the only person who's had a decent ride of it is Littlefinger (with only a lifetime of unrequited love and universal disdain from his peers under his belt), and he's a faithless, manipulative snake.
Pretty much every other character (or someone they love) has been either killed, maimed, raped, disowned, betrayed, or suffers from some kind of hideous disfigurement (most characters seem to be a mix-and-match affair).
I'd have to agree that Eddings it most certainly aint, but I still can't quite see the silver lining around the ASOIAF stormheads...