I wish to say how sorry I am also, I have lost a father in law, a nephew and a grandmother. The grandmother I never got to say good bye to, she lived in Oz, and I long to have done that, the nephew, we never got to hold or chreish long enough, but we were able to say goodbye, my father in law was only a mere shadow of himself, I'll remember them always as I knew them, the nephew,I will cherish.
I never know what to say or do. It seems so trite to say they are in a better place and keeping an eye on you, but it helps me through.
blessings, and fond memories i wish you both.
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