Iceycat, what you have said is so true.....
As fans, there must be a 'code' that we all follow.
There are way too many people out there that claim to be fans, but all they seem to want to do is create a fictional world for themselves where they beleive they are owed something, simply because they think they are the ultimate fan.
I think some people beleive that making up stories will make them a more popular person, or give them some sort of status within their 'community'... be it stargate or whatever.
I have to make the point that the stars of the shows we like and watch owe us nothing, except their thanks for making that show popular.
Some fans can be so overbearing... My advice to them, is take a step back and take a good hard look at themselves, and the possible trouble they are causing, and the ramifications of those actions on other well-meaning fans.
I have heard of the trouble with MSOOF, and my only comment on this, is Michael would have only done something like this if he really had justification for his actions.
People like Michael and Richard must treasure their privacy so much... I wouldn't blame them if they never wanted to come to any conventions.
I know when we were in talks with Stargate Productions about Richard possibly coming to Gatecon 2000, the bulk of the talk was about security, and you'd be shocked at the amount of security we needed to provide for him if he decided to come. And we were ready to provide it.
Our first priority at our conventions is the security of the stars who attend. Many people critisized our use of security, and said that the presence was too much... but when it comes to the safety of these guys, nothing is left to chance.
Sorry... I've waffled on a bit, but this is a subject I could go on for hours about.