Weasel Soup, no, no, no. What I'm saying about Ygritte is that Jon had to hook up with her for the good of the NW. He did not want to, but he did.
Sometimes in sports, a coach will ask a player to do something the player's not comfortable doing in order to help the team. The player may not like it, but it helps the team win.
In contemporary American society, when two men go out and one meets a beautiful woman and he'd like to spend time with this woman but the woman won't unless the man finds another man to spend time with her less attractive friend, then the other man (if he's a true friend or at least has questionable morals) will become the unattractive woman's date. What the second man has done is... take one for the team.
I'm saying Jon took one for the team. To his shame, he liked it.
So if he had to... he'd take another one... for the team, of course.