External factors that affect your writing

First...WORK is NOT the place to write. Home or elsewhere is the place to write. During the day when you are at work, that's when you should be composing your upcoming writing in your head.

What if you're actually at work, but you don't have any actual work? That's generally when I do my writing. At home, there are too many distractions with my husband and my dogs. At work, since I'm just filling a seat, I find that it's easier to find some time to write.

My external factors? The internet. Me. The "writer's block" that I generally experience is, I believe, a sign of my lack of confidence in my writing. I'm writing to please others (which is funny, because very few people ever get to read my writings) instead of writing for myself. I have the critic in my head who constantly tells me that the idea is stupid, it won't work, that page was crap, etc, etc. Somehow I need to silence that critic and write what I want.
 
What if you're actually at work, but you don't have any actual work? That's generally when I do my writing. At home, there are too many distractions with my husband and my dogs. At work, since I'm just filling a seat, I find that it's easier to find some time to write.

My external factors? The internet. Me. The "writer's block" that I generally experience is, I believe, a sign of my lack of confidence in my writing. I'm writing to please others (which is funny, because very few people ever get to read my writings) instead of writing for myself. I have the critic in my head who constantly tells me that the idea is stupid, it won't work, that page was crap, etc, etc. Somehow I need to silence that critic and write what I want.

That's a toughie. "Self-talk" is corny sounding, but it does have its uses. For one thing, read really good work, and learn from it, and practice doing your best. Don't be afraid to edit. Pat yourself on the back when you get something especially good. Don't worry about whether an idea is "stupid" or not... a lot of ideas in stories are, but the stories are very good ("Skeleton", by Ray Bradbury, has an absolutely ludicrous premise, but darned if that story doesn't still work after 60 years...)

But chiefly... learn to talk back to the critic, get it to be reasonable, rather than vicious. Being self-critical can be very helpful, if not overdone. And when you do something you think is good... reinforce that good feeling in some way... give yourself a treat; show it to people who will give positive feedback (though honest, not just flattery). Or something else... whatever helps to reinforce for you that feeling of pride in what you've just accomplished. Small steps, but important ones....
 
Excellent advice from JD!! Having started to write fiction for the first time!! This is probably my first real attempt at a book (have written a few poems) 16 pages in, I am starting to get self doubt that my writing is a big load of rubbish.......and after reading and researching on writing. It would seem that writing a short story first would have been a better idea, instead of this grand epic that I envisaged. However having started, and know the plotline (major bits anyway) from beginning to the end, I am loathe to stop and start a new project.
Anyway, just now wrote in my blog, its easy to write my blog, churned out 450 words in no time at all. I feel I can write freely, simply whatever I feel at the time. Definitely gets the juices going.
 
Teresa, for clarification: I did state that, if you're going through a particularly rough period, working on fiction might not be a good idea, but to turn to writing in a journal, or possibly working on a nonfiction article, or even just doing research and scribbling down notes on what you read with that, and the thoughts that come to you -- anything to keep the writing going, at least a little bit. It's not necessary that it be polished writing, but something to keep exercising those muscles, so to speak. It's not a matter of "tricking" yourself, or any of that; simply of keeping the mind as limber as possible. This can include writing letters to people, as well.

Oh, but JD, I've been through periods where I had to struggle to write anything more complex than a grocery list. Letters to friends? Out of the question. Nonfiction? A journal? Not possible. There have been days when a paragraph like this one would take more than an hour to compose -- and worse days when I didn't post at all although I had something to say, because the words wouldn't come. So I stand by what I said before. With the worst kind of block you can't cure it by trying to write, or by writing something else. You have to fix the underlying problem(s).

Right now, I'm on no less than three different antidepressants, and because of them I'm finding I do have a free flow of words, here at least, when I have something particular to say. Fiction remains a struggle. For me, fiction and nonfiction come from two different parts of my brain, and the creative part is in serious trouble of late.

But of course it depends on what you hope for in your writing. For those who write for distraction or escape, I am sure writing during a depression is possible. If you are striving for excellence (as I know you are, even as I am) then even the inability to tell good writing from bad can bring things to a crashing halt. Mistakes snowball. If you can fix them early enough you can avoid an avalanche. If every passage looks like garbage, then it's impossible to identify the real mistakes.

Sometimes writing something, anything, does work. I have said as much. But in those cases it's just a matter of priming the pump. This does no good at all if there is no water in the cistern. You can work the handle until your arm falls off, the water isn't there. Meanwhile, you're courting dehydration by all that exertion. Better to find out why the cistern is empty.

I'm sure your own struggles have been intense, but that doesn't necessarily give you insight into what mine have been and are -- any more than mine give me the right to tell you what you are feeling and what you should do about them. I might make suggestions, but I am sure you will have the good sense to ignore them when they are completely off-base in your particular circumstances. The problem is that people who are newer to these things than either of us may take something to heart when they shouldn't. They'll try something that people present as though it's the universal cure, and when it doesn't work stress mounts and the problem may become worse.

My point -- and really my only point -- is that when one highly touted cure doesn't work people shouldn't feel they need to stay with it. They would do far better under those circumstances to look elsewhere -- and very often for a solution that is very much elsewhere. If your brain is dull because you're anemic, for instance, there is no possible way that any form of writing is going to cure that. Two weeks of spinach salads will do you a lot more good.
 
So spinach salads is the magic cure? Fantastic!

A very valid point, though. It's pretty clear that in this, just as in every other aspect of writing, in the end you have to work out what works best for you. There is no magic cure, there is no quadratic equation for writing...
 
Teresa: On that, I'm in agreement with you. No, there is no "one-size-fits-all" cure, that's true. But from the majority of writers I've heard over the years, continuing to write at something tends to work more often than not. However, you're quite right. If you're doing this for any period, and the problem isn't getting better or -- heaven forfend! -- getting worse, then by all means, don't keep it up!

But -- again, to clarify -- I was addressing the writing itself on that question. Of course the best thing, whichever tact you take with the writing, is to find out what the underlying causes are, and work on resolving them. That's true for anything that seriously effects any aspect of your life deleteriously... so perhaps I erred in this seeming so obvious that I didn't speak out about it; but it is definitely part of the equation -- a major part. As said, I was focusing on the question essentially about whether to continue attempting to write or not -- a fault I can have, being too focused and single-minded at times. Often it works for me, but sometimes it means I'm not communicating other aspects very well....
 

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