In every city you have to deliberately ignore aspects of your environment - the feel of the air on your pores - the harsh unyielding feel of concrete - angles that slice up the space around you into neat and restrictive parcels and blockages - the constant sound and smell of traffic - the constant presence of too many other people, none of whom you know. Most people can become accustomed to this and some thrive on it - but for many its just something to be endured or not thought about.
But not everyone does live in the city, and many who do wouldn't move if you paid them.
I don't know what it's like in Australia, but in this country around every major city there are vast suburbs. You can work in the city and still have a place to go away from the concrete and angles and sounds of traffic and pressure of humanity. Even if you're poor and live in an apartment, you can walk down the street and see grass and gardens and maybe not pass another person for half an hour (more if you take your walk in the early morning or early evening).
Even in the city there are parks and museums and other places where you can find beauty. In fact, it's the convenience of such things that keep many people
in the city.
It's popular now to dwell on the negative -- even, in many cases, to seek out the ugly and the frantic and the soul-deadening. We don't have to live that way. And we don't have to think that way either, but again, many go looking for books, movies, games, and the companionship of people who re-enforce and validate that kind of thinking.
And I don't say that we should ignore the horrible things in life, but neither should we exaggerate them or glorify them or take a perverse pleasure in them. There is more to life than that, and we need to be reminded. We need more balance.