I don't know, seems a bit sexist just to say "Females read this, males read this." I don't think you can classify most books one way or the other. Must all SFF books that contain some romance mean only women read them and there should be more for that reason? It's all personal preference. I liked the Elizabeth Haydon books, I don't see why they have to be male or female oriented just because the main character is female and there's romance. I don't have a problem with romance in the books as long as the story is good. I wouldn't read romance by itself though, but it's fine when you throw some elves, wizards, and demons in the mix with an interesting story.
Most of the books I have are written by men, but I do have some female authors like J. V. Jones, Anne Bishop, Elizabeth Haydon, Margaret Weis, Lois McMaster Bujold, and Robin Hobb. Romance in SFF or blood and guts, some like one, some like the other, and some both. Why try and classify is so much?