Is this a spoiler free thread? I forget. Well, anyway... SPOILER ALERT
Kiwi, I agree. I want to see acting, not faking orgasms.
Who'd have thought that The Sopranos would be the cleaner show? Not me.
My issue with the sex on HBO is that is seems obnoxiously gratuitious in comparison to the books. I think Martin's story racy, yet realistic. It's a cruel and brutal world where sex is used for procreation (Drogo and Dany), recreation (Tyrion and Shae), and domination (______ and the tavern girl). Sex takes on different forms... married couples, lovers, lords and mistresses, brother and sister, prostitution, rape, and lesbians. In Martin's world, there is also father and daughter marriage and gay sex although these are never depicted in the narrative.
I don't know how, but Martin never makes sex, sex talk, or descriptions of people's sexuality seem gratuitious. Lies, truth, illusions, delusions, power, status, murder, and national policies are all dealt with in the bedroom. It all seems like part of the vivid setting where life, death, love and hate start and stop sooner than expected.
For example, take the Stark children. Eddard and Catelyn think there will be time to share the details of the harsh realities of life to their children (and Jon) at a later time. But unfortunately, the Lannisters were hurrying the clock. As a result, all of them were unprepared for the realities of sex, romance, love, and duty in the bedroom. Robb.... oh, boy. Jon... he knew nothing. Sansa... life is not a dream, sweetling. Arya... there are some terrible things said in front of Arya... indeed, some terrible things are said to her. And she sees it all in Harrenhal. Bran... yes, he was only eight, but he paid dearly for his ignorance. Rickon seems the only one unaffected at the moment.
The only sex scenes (and I mean any scenes with nudity or sexual relations) that seemed non-gratuitous were all in the first episode, I think. Tyrion and the whores were a bit gratuitious, but it really served a purpose in introducing the characters and relationship between Jaime and Tyrion. I also thought the consumation of Drogo and Dany's wedding was needed. It showed the brutal reality of what this world is compared to Sansa's dream world. And though the sex between Jaime and Cersei seemed uninspired and unathletic, I thought the point was driven home that the Lannisters are baaaaaad.
No one considers themself a prude. But I think compared to most people, I probably am a prude.