Mouse, I thought mayhaps (the whole trick is to say mayhaps without anyone noticing) that you were asking if people would have preferred men insted women in that scene. I've read too much into your question and revealed myself as a puritan... and mayhaps Lord of the Crossing.
Moony, Welcome! I love the fact that the show has gotten you into the books, but I cannot warn you strongly enough to beware that reading these threads can seriously ruin the story for you. I cannot say more than this without spoiling the story for you.
You say you like the books better? Good. There are layers and layers of characters, plots, and relationships that the show cannot cover. But the most important parts are probably the dreams and memories of Eddard...
You hate the Lannisters? Good. They're bad. Just think of Jaime's sins to this point. He assassinated the last king. He's commited high treason by sleeping with Robert's queen. He's commited high treason fathering three children upon the Queen. He's pretended the children are Robert's. And the kicker is that the Queen is his own sister! He attempted to murder Bran Stark by defenestration. He broke the King's Peace by waylaying Lord Stark and murdering his men in the street.
Now think of how the last episode started... Jaime's father was teaching him how to be even more ruthless. Wow!!!!
Which brings me to that scene... I watched it again last night. Yes, I know that I said (on the first page of this thread) that Tywin is supposed to be bald, but Charles Dance looks exactly how GRRM should have described him. I like his look and his intensity.
When I first watched the scene, I thought Tywin would never ever butcher his own kill. I'm sure he's an accomplished hunter, but Lord Tywin, Lord of Casterly Rock, Warden of the West, former Hand of the King, Goodfather to King Robert, the wealthiest man in the Seven Kingdoms, patrician of the most powerful of the pure Andal family, the staunchest believer in proper breeding would never butcher his own deer. But upon my second viewing, I made the connection of the Lion butchering the Stag... House Lannister making a bloody mess of House Baratheon. And I also thought Tywin was preparing for war by reaccustoming himself to having bloody hands.
And speaking of bald characters portrayed by actors with hair... I love the look of Jorah. Iain Glen plays him well... and again, he's not how GRRM described, but he's how GRRM should have described him. Is that blasphemous?