CyBeR, let me welcome you to the wonderful, tragic, beautiful, and scandalous
A Song of Ice and Fire. Congratulations on actually finishing the first book. I know people who quit reading when they learned the aftermath of Arya's training with Mycah and of others who quit when they learned what happened when Joffrey addressed the crowd outside of the Great Sept. It was the latter that hooked me on this story. I thought the worst thing of AGOT was when a boy saw something he was not meant to see.
I'll try to avoid even spoilers from AGOT... and I'll avoid any details from the rest of the series. With that in mind, I'd encourage you to stay away from even the GRRM forum page because there are many spoilers even in the titles. Like Catelyn understood that in one brief moment Bran could lose his balance and have his future shattered, so too could you have your sense of wondrous anticipation ruined in a single glance.
I so wish somewhere in this series someone gets a knife hilt deep into Sansa's throat. I find myself almost wishing to skip her chapters.
Robert wanted a knife to deal with Daenerys, a teenage girl. Dany's crime? She is the last daughter of House Targaryen. She's a political and military threat to the kingdom. It is very sad, but the plotting of Daenerys' death became national policy.
Sansa's crime? She's annoying teenager... self-centered, obsessed with appearances, and insecure. Yet, I doubt "a knife hilt deep into Sansa's throat" is an appropriate response.
Yes, my tag line says, "Catelyn delenda est." It is a play upon the reputed refrain that Cato the Elder would end his speeches to the Roman Senate... "Carthago delenda est", i.e. Carthage must be destroyed. I know that the previous paragraph will seem like hypocrisy coming from me... but I beg you to reserve judement upon me until you're much further in the story. To say anymore would spoil it.
But yes, I've also wished that violent deaths would find a number of characters, most notably many Lannisters.
Cy, I find that I dislike a number of the POV characters, but that does not mean that I do not their stories. Personally, I dislike Catelyn intensely. I think this is because she is an intelligent and cultured woman who repeatedly bases her decisions upon her emotions and only reacts to outside pressures. My major issue with her, in all honesty, is that I see myself in her... and it bothers me. I sympathize with her... even as I detest her.
But I must say that I rather enjoy her POVs. Catelyn's thoughts and experiences give us insight into Lyssa Arryn, the Riverlands, Tyrion, motherhood, direwolves, politics, embassies, quests, knighthood, war and leadership. Through her POV we get our first glimpse a number of characters. I cannot go into more detail since you've not read beyond AGOT. She gives us our first looks at Winterfell, the Eyrie, the Twins, and Riverrun. Very importantly she gives us independent views of the Lannisters, most importantly Tyrion.
Even though I do not like Catelyn, I think she's a great character.
Along the same lines, Sansa is not immediately likable. The only aspect of Sansa that is at all appealing is the sympathy aroused from losing her pet... and even that happened because she lied about Arya, Mycah, and Nymeria. She manipulates her parents, as much as she can, to keep coddling her. She betrays her father's plans to the Queen, which results in Eddard's execution as a traitor.
Yes, I understand that Sansa is only thirteen. It's sad that she's been put into these difficult positions at such a young age. Her only malicious act was lying about Arya and Joffrey... and that's not such a great crime, right? Yet, the High Septon says, "As we sin, so do we suffer." What a crock.
She's manipulated by Cersei on multiple occassions. She's threatened by Sandor. She's intimidated by Gregor and Ilyn. And she's betrothed to a vindictive, vain, and vile King. After Eddard, Jory, and Septa Mordane are killed, sympathy for her plight increases.
I know I am rambling a bit... it's hard when I must only discuss the story from the first book when I want to give you examples of characters and their POVs from all five.
You commented in your OP, that giving the POVs around the throne is better than going straight to the source. I agree. And that is why Eddard had to die... he knew too much and GRRM could keep the secrets of Eddard's life out of Eddard's POV any longer. My point is that each of the POVs serve a distinct and precise purpose. Many give insights into the game of thrones. Some allow us to glimpse the supernatural world. A few show us the plight of the common man. Some show us kings. Some show us queens. Many show us power brokers. A few actually reveal the past. But together, they give us a much more well-rounded perspective of the game, the players, the threats, and the future.
Personally, I don't like Jon Snow. Not at all. But I love his POV. Without it, we'd be in the dark regarding the operations of the Night's Watch, it's strength, and it's men.
Everything that GRRM did he did well as far as I'm concerned. I liked some characters, despised others and downright hated a few...but it came from their actions, not just from the general character trope. Which is a very impressive achievement in my book.
Well said. I love the way that Martin completely changed my perspective of Tyrion from the opening Stark POVs through Tyrion's decision to take a certain companion to King's Landing.
I helped a friend move in some new couches today and his wife told me that they were eight episodes into HBO's AGOT first season. Neither of them has read any of GRRM's works... all they know is that Eddard is imprisoned. Their favorite characters are Dany (Khaleesi, she called her), Eddard, Robb, and Tyrion. I made the mistake of telling them who my favorite character is... my fave starts as a villain, and may be a villain at the end of the story, but there are signs of a possible redemption.
Anyway, the point is that GRRM's characters earn their places in our hearts. Respect, loathing, adoration, sympathy, hatred, pity... he does a tremendous job, as you said, of letting their actions speak for themselves.
I hope I've not spoiled any of the story.
Just my rambling thoughts.