Anya, that was incredibly honest and interesting. Because you often read about a person's journey but not the journey their spouse is obliged to take alongside. Thanks for sharing.
Jo, very good. And I was musing about your blog post, and realized that things feel a little different for me because I dabble in kid lit. YA/MG/PB spans multiple genres, and it's all still considered to be under the kid lit umbrella (in the USA, not sure about UK). The kid lit community in the USA is a hugely welcoming and inclusive one, so when I tell fellow writers I write sff I get the sort of response that goes, 'Oh. I don't read that. But hey, it's kid lit, so you're obviously one of us.' Which I think is perhaps a different attitude to the one towards people who write adult.
A little OT, but we have a local group of writers, with people of all genres, and one woman writes m/m romance. When she introduced herself she sort of went 'oh, they're not proper novels'. This from a person with multiple books out with established genre publishing houses. I laughed and told her she had more experience with publishing than the rest of us put together.
Jo, very good. And I was musing about your blog post, and realized that things feel a little different for me because I dabble in kid lit. YA/MG/PB spans multiple genres, and it's all still considered to be under the kid lit umbrella (in the USA, not sure about UK). The kid lit community in the USA is a hugely welcoming and inclusive one, so when I tell fellow writers I write sff I get the sort of response that goes, 'Oh. I don't read that. But hey, it's kid lit, so you're obviously one of us.' Which I think is perhaps a different attitude to the one towards people who write adult.
A little OT, but we have a local group of writers, with people of all genres, and one woman writes m/m romance. When she introduced herself she sort of went 'oh, they're not proper novels'. This from a person with multiple books out with established genre publishing houses. I laughed and told her she had more experience with publishing than the rest of us put together.