I think this may be true for a lot of readers. Although as far as romance goes, the men who thought that way would be quite wrong, since the vast majority of heroes in romance novels are alpha males ... actually some of those heroes make real-life alpha males look like sissies by comparison.
Trying to avoid some of my previous clumsiness, I'm not directing this at you or asking you to defend anything but it's just that your words triggered rambling thoughts of my own.
And that is: this is stuff (mostly) written by women for (mostly) women and it's okay. But if SF (speaking exclusive of fantasy if I need to) is (mostly) written by men for (mostly) men and features an alpha male or a less-than-alpha female this is bayud. This hearkens back to the shirtless dudes on the covers of romance novels which many say is a tiny minority but thereby admit exist. But when a chainmail bra makes an appearance on an SFF cover, it's totally evil and calls for the expulsion of a couple of writers and the resignation of the (female) editor?
And some might say that black people can use certain words that others can't but we're talking about women portraying men and men portraying men (and each portraying women) and women can do either however they want and men can't. So I don't see this exception applying and I find it very hard to come up with the rationales here.
Like I say, you're free to respond or not as you choose, Teresa - I'm not looking for anything one way or the other but just "thinking out loud". I'm using your words here but, again, it's just for example. Just imagine a male writer talking about his alpha males making others look like sissies. (And maybe his submissive women looking hot in chainmail - even though most chainmail women are alpha women.) Why, he'd be villified like... like... John Norman!
(Disclaimer: never read him but I know he's bayud.)
I am hoping to find at least one short fiction nominee which doesn't feel like I've read it virtually the same story 30 times before. So far no luck. I tried another one of them today - The Triple Sun: A Golden Age Tale by Rajnar Vajra. Mildly entertaining stuff, but there wasn't even an attempt of anything new.
BTW, I left out something regarding this, again not taking issue with you, David, but I hear it all over all the time. And so it's just a general point I wanted to make:
I haven't read it but I gather there's no way Scalzi can be said to have broken any ground with Redshirts. It's like a novelization of Galaxyquest which is a parody/homage of Star Trek, right? And (on things I have read) anyone who thinks Rajaniemi isn't writing plain ol' 30-year-old cyberpunk or that Leckie isn't writing 50-year-old New Wave stuff hasn't read enough cyberpunk and New Wave. And there's nothing especially wrong with this, except when this fact is ignored. There's nothing new under the sun and it's a genre besides. That means the stuff is of a(n incrementally ever-changing, but recognizable) type. You try to make it fresh, you try to add new scientific ideas, but you're going to be having your future, your robots, your spaceships, your dystopian ruler, your whatever - the question isn't so much whether it's new as whether it simply feels more fresh vs. more stale.
And back on the Vajra - I don't like it, but it's specifically not "new" by design - the whole point of it is to be retro and to criticize it for that alone isn't really enough. And there's nothing wrong when it's The Difference Engine, apparently, but only when it's the Gernsback Continuum. (Steampunk vs. (pre- and) Golden Age in case my Gibson references aren't clear.)
And moving on to a more general topic - the SFWA Nebula is the writer's writer award. There are a plethora of juried awards for the artsy stuff. While we should never celebrate sheer garbage in any award, the Hugo awards are supposed to be the
popular awards. There's nothing wrong with giving fantastic enjoyment to thousands and millions of readers over decades. The idea that a guy who sells a million books that bring joy to so many and leads them on to read Joe or Josephine Artist's latest go at an sfnal Dosotoevsky should not also be celebrated (beyond being able to look at his bank account) is kind of sad to me. (Not sad puppy sad, just sad.
) If a work is reasonably literate and lots of people like it, why not give the author a pat on the back? There are plenty of awards of all kinds for all kinds of work. Why not one for fan favorite like, I dunno, a Hugo?