thank you everyone for you comments
my thought simply was that a fire breath/spit is so effective for both offensive and defensive actions that it would effectively count as a "crippling overspecialization", reducing said creature to the point that most modern adaptations would become vestigial, regressing it to sessility from a evolutionary point of view
@scarpelius my understanding of the bombadier beetle was that the exothermic reaction merely facilitates the release of the chemical its not the purpose of the defence, the chemical is the purpose which acts as an irritant, not quite a flame spurt, also it is a mid level carnivore making it necessary to have said defence mechanism but more on that in a bit
@Ihe I agree on the size and the flight unless, this fire breathing/spitting creature was in fact aquatic, most larger creatures are partly or completely aquatic, (i.e. Saltwater Crocodile, Anacondas, Whales) which would also make sense form the sessility POV, most sessile creatures are aquatic or coastal, perhaps the wings weren't wings at all and merely looked that way from the first sailors that described these humongous creatures, perhaps the wings are in fact a filter feeding mechanism, building further on the idea of a sessile fire breather/spitter
essentially from an evolutionary point of view the European/Western Archetype breaks many rules, i.e. its extremely difficult to have a creature that is big AND carnivourous AND can fly AND has a flame breath/spit, unless the creatures existence is partially magic/constructed through supernatural means or their is some sort of equally magical, supernatural or miraculous evolutionary/predatory pressure necessitating all of those adaptation in a single organisms, which bring me to ...
a realistic competitor to a dragon in the European/Western archetype would be a take on a hyperthermophiles currently only ones described are methanogen microorganisms, effectively resistant to high temperatures from deep subterranean near molten rock but not really flames, and I'm not quite sure one can claim that because a creature lives on or around a rock that is heated to >100* C, it would survive a flame of the same temperature, I may be wrong, if you could however, these creatures would live deep underground and be plant like since the basis for energy generation is catabolic, i.e. the production of methane, and a plant like phenotype best fit catabolic cellular machinery, their presence/survival above ground would in fact make it necessary that the environment that supports them effectively change as well, a carbon dioxide and hydrogen rich atmosphere, quite a bit more difficult to do in the context of human cell biology
but Dragons vs. ? Feculant Ents of the Underdark... could work I guess