think we may have to agree to disagree here. Perhaps we have two completely different ideas of what a knight is- I'm going to go along with Sansa on the "true knight" thing. The stories may be fiction, but they demonstrate what a perfect knight should be. I don't think any real knight would stoop to the lows that Ser Gregor has gone to- torturing innocent commoners, killing defenseless babies, raping women- Gregor is a monster who is only useful for instilling fear in people. A knight, in every sense of the word, is a protector of the weak and innocent. And that is why I think Sandor scorns them so- because the majority of them don't even coming close to earning such a prestigious title.
I think we need to differentiate what a knight should be and what a knight is. How me or you may view what a knight is really irrelevant, all that matters is that we both know - The perfect knight (as Sansa see's it) does not exist. It is a notion that seems Martin has been drilling into us from the get go, Jamie explains it to Brienne, Sandor to Sansha, etc.
The only true knights are the men of the Kingsguard: the Sword of the Morning, for example. He exemplifies what a knight is and should be.
Such a statment is more apt to defend my statement - look at the Kingsguard now. These are characters we know, not ones based on the mythology looked back on by others thus far, of the past Kingsguard..
As for Loras, well- I'm not sure being homosexual makes him any less of a knight.
This was not to be a topical statement regarding our own time - clearly if it was known he was gay, he would not have been annoited, thus he would not be a knight (in most cases), the fact that he is a son of a powerful lord works in his favor, but how proud of his son would he be if he knew (assuming he didn't) that Loras is gay. It's hard to say, we saw has Sam Tarley's father treated him because he was fat and weak; I'm not quite sure what the stigma is attached would in Westeros related to homo-sexuals, particulary by Southern Lords.
If you are attributing your defintion of a Knight to Sansa's vision that clearly Loras does not qualify, except to again add depth to the notion that Sansa truly was blind, as we do know she thinks him the perfect knight - and is absolutely enthralled by him at that - the gay knight. Not like Sansa's tales I think.
I'm noy saying Loras's sexual choice has anything to with his ability to fight or carry out the duties of a knight we know he is a great warrior etc, although I suspect Garland to be his better) , I'm just saying he probably doesn't fit the mold of a Knight in one of Sansa's legends.
hmmm...does any of that make sense
Sometimes the language barrier comes into play on topivs like this.
I agree with Arya...
but I look to The Morining Lord and Barriston the Bold as examples of good knights
For every Kingsguard you can name for proven virtue, I can name 2 that are proven not to be of worth by the same standards.