I think that Sci Fi used to be something that only Intellectuals, 'nerds' and older guys liked. Certainly when I was 16 (in 1900 and frozen to death!!) I used to think my dad was really weird for liking Science Fiction novels. He used to get them in droves every week from the library. My ex husband was mad on sci fi too. But it wasn't something that anyone 'normal' or female (or both) like to read at that time. I did start reading them a few years later and I did see what he saw in them!
Things have changed quite considerably and quite frankly, it was shows like Star Trek that started everyone of thinking that this was a genre that could really be fun, as well as painting a more positive view of the future of world (and sometimes blowing it up!). Remember that in the 60's when the genre really started to grab hold of the entertainment industry, we were going through the Cold War thing. Everyone wanted something positive to hang on to, nobody wanted to believe that we would go up in smoke in a nuclear war. Prior to the 60's, most of the sci fi films were a joke.... apart from a couple which were really good. The Day the Earth Stood Still leaps to mind. It had some great ideas for it's day.
I think it's great that I can, at the age of 50, talk to people of the age of 16 + - about something that we all like. I find it amazing and wonderful that we can have these discussions. And it doesn't matter what age you are....everyone has something of relevance to say.
Learning never stops at any age. I learn things every day, from my children and most especially from my 2 year old grandson and from people like you. Life is a learning curve and if it isn't then you're stagnating.
When your parents say they don't like sci fi or anything to do with it, it's really change they don't like and let's face it, anything which looks as far into the future as the science fiction genre does, stands for change. People don't like change, it frightens them, and sometimes the older you get the worse that fear becomes and the more you try to hang onto the old things.
Sorry to get all philosophical, but I think you're all great people
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