Re: SPOILERS theory on jon
The theory I have is that Rhaegar and Lyanna tried to elope, but someone made it appear as though she was abducted and raped...
If you think about it, nowhere in the books so far is there any mention of any serious misdeeds by Rhaegar - everyone who was more than passing acquainted with him seems to be of the opinion that he was a good man, would have made a just king...Even Eddard seems to have a good opinion of him, and he had nothing to do with Ned's father's death, he wasn't even there, I think...Rhaegar just doesn't strike me like the type of person who would find pleasure in forcing himself on someone who didn't want him, and even less as being capable of risking civil war in the kingdom just to satisfy his personal lust...
The only one who derides him is Robert Baratheon (ok, and those around him), the question is WHY...I assume someone told him a 'decorated' version of what happened, knowing he wouldn'r stop to question the truth of the matter because it gave him an excuse to start a rebellion...Eddard keeps remembering his promise whenever Robert rails about the Targaryens, it has to be connected...
There's also the scene where Dany goes through that weird tower and opens some of the doors...something about 'one more' (I think she sees a couple standing over a crib and one of them says something about there being 'another'...why would she see that, all the other scenes had some sort of significance for her...)
And I have to agree with Hodor - for Ned to have strayed even once, knowing his rigid character? I doubt it very much...there's also the fact h+that he refuses to mention Jon's mother's name to anyone - I mean, if he was capable of siring a ******* child and openly having him brought up in his home, surely he would at least have told Catelyn 'look, her name was..., it happened, I'm sorry...'