I swear to God there will be hell to pay if it ends with:
"Ned awoke, sweating, and was relieved to find it was all just a bad dream."
I hear Tad Williams's Memory Sorrow and Thorn has an ending along these lines and GRRM has said he was an influence...
I hope I hear wrong though, because I just started Stone of Farewell and am already doubting whether or not I want to keep slogging forward
Read
GRRM's Not A Blog entry yesterday... ASOIAF will not end as Eddard's dream.
Syphon, just to let you know up front, I tend to get bogged down with semantics when it suits me. So I'd like to say that Mormont is not
banished, he's on the run from justice. I think the whole North and all the good players know Mormont's story. But with the fall of House Stark and the rise of House Bolton, would Cersei and Roose care if Jorah came back? Could they make use of him? Well if they are desirous of information on Dany, then yes Jorah has value to the ruling junta.
Now, back to the main topic... I also believe that Eddard had a solid perception of the necessity and value of the NW. Eddard even told Catelyn that he thought he'd have to call his banners and march against Mance in a few years because the NW did not have the strength to do it themselves. It's just that he'd forgotten (like everyone else) that the Others are still out there and that they are the real threat.
BFS, in my opinion, is the elephant in the room. We're all waiting for Howland Reed because we know he possess the vital information that we desire. But Barristan was an intimate of Aerys II, Rhaegar, and Elia. He was in the Kingsguard. He was the one who personally rescued Aerys from the Darklyns. Aerys must have trusted Barristan as much as he trusted anyone. I think that Rhaegar trusted Barristan as much as he trusted anyone. Barristan and Jonothor Darry were entrusted with trying to salvage the remains of Connington's army after the Battle of the Bells and with trying to contain the Arryn/Baratheon/Stark/Tully host. Barristan, along with Darry and Prince Llewyn Martell, rode with Rhaegar to the Trident.
If Jaime knew the truth about the deaths of Rickard and Brandon Stark when Catelyn did not...
If Jaime knew the truth about why Elia and her children were not allowed to flee to Dragonstone and Oberyn did not...
If Jaime and Varys knew that Pycelle was the one to convince Aerys to let Tywin into King's Landing and yet Eddard did not know this...
Then I don't think it's a far stretch to say that Barristan knew the details of Rhaegar's relationship with Lyanna and the need for three of the Kingsguard to stay with her.
When Daenerys pardoned Barristan, at the end of ASOS, he volunteered to tell her all of the Targaryen family secrets. He especially wanted to tell her about Rhaegar, but Dany was not in the mood to also hear of her father's madness.
The big question is what does the title of this series mean? What is
A Song of Ice and Fire? We think that Jon figures prominently into the title. Daenerys as well. But Jon's origins are still unclear... If Eddard is his father, then we don't know who Jon's mother is... The major union of Ice and Fire that is mentioned is the relationship between Rhaegar and Lyanna... but what ever became of it besides death and heartbreak? These things are still the great unknowns.
To keep this a secret, GRRM has gone to great lengths. He had to kill off Eddard. He has to keep Howland Reed out of sight. He has to keep Varys as a very shadowy figure. He has to keep Littlefinger occupied with the present and future. He had to never introduce Wylla. He had to make Benjen disappear. He made Jaime the one Kingsguard mistrusted by the Targaryens. He had to kill off Aemon, Tywin and Gregor as well. The previous deaths of Rickard, Brandon, Lyanna, Aerys, Elia, Ashara, Arthur Dayne, Oswell Whent, Gerold Hightower, Jonothor Darry, Llewyn Martell, Willem Darry, Martyn Cassel, Theo Wull, Ethan Glover, Mark Ryswell, and William Dustin were all necessary to maintain this secret.
Who alive might know the secret? Howland Reed, but we've never even glimpsed him. Varys, but his whereabouts are currently unknown. Pycelle, but I doubt that Rhaegar trusted him that much. Jon Connington, we've never seen him either... if he's still alive. This leaves Barristan Selmy. He knows the truth about Rhaegar and Lyanna, I'm convinced of it. He would also have known if she was pregnant when Rhaegar marched against Robert. But he probably does not know if Lyanna ever produced a child.