This is true. Didn't she already fool the Kindly Man when she warged into the cat while she was still blind? He assumed she now has super-duper spidey senses, but really she cheated.
I don't think she fooled him. She just managed to fulfill task he asked of her, although he doesn't know how she did it, and that is all that counts, so he allowed her to progress.
They say that she can still leave the order. But I also don't think they would just let her do it. They give her choice to leave, but probably at that point if she would take that path, they would just give her the gift.
Correct. They are secretive order which have roots in old Valyria. People in the books know very little, if anything about them. Does anyone think that they could keep that kind of low profile for almost thousand years by just allowing any unsuccessful candidate to walk around telling about everything he saw in temple.
I don't mean that she can "cheat" the system set up by the faceless men, what I mean is that the goal of their entire system might be to just make sure that their agents can lie and disguise themselves perfectly enough to fool people.
A human being cannot become "no one", these are not the Borg from Star Trek who can lose their individual identity. The point is not for her to no longer be Arya of House Stark, the point is for her to get so 'faceless' that no one could ever tell that she is Arya of House Stark.
Varys was Varys, no matter how convincing his disguise, and Jaqen H'ghar seems to have an individual personality as well.
And yet we have proof that people can be brainwashed enough to give their life for some "higher cause" in our own world.
Faceless men wrap themselves in religious doctrine of not killing someone, but presenting him a "gift". In order to become instrument of their god they must erase their own personality, since, if they have their own moral guidance or personal agenda, they are not "instruments" fulfilling the will of higher being, but plain killers. And that trick, unfortunately, is already used by many organizations in world we live in.
My belief also is that at some point of training Arya will be forced to make a choice. But I believe that she will renounce Needle (sorry Needle), and to choose becoming full fledged FM.
However, her bond with Nymeria can not be broken that easily, and her wolf dreams will continue, since they are magical in nature. Giving her opportunity to renounce FM after she meats Nymeria.
Varys is not FM. Jaqen did have personality, human without one would stick from the crowd like a elephant in the glass shop, and wouldn't be very efficient as an undercover assassin. Question is - is it his personality or is it the one he used as best suited for the mask he was wearing.