Karn Maeshalanadae
I'm a pineapple
And speaking of genres, I don't even know if I entered the Tudorpunk challenge month...or if I did, I can't remember what it was.
But beyond that, for every new member that does stick around and really become part of the community, I've seen many make just one post and never return.
[my bolding] Just to say I have no doubt we all feel this. I've been lucky in that some of my stories have chimed with people on some occasions, but I've also sweated over stories in consecutive months which have each received only a bare couple of mentions. Yes, it is dispiriting. Yes, it is discouraging. And if we have other things going on in our lives dragging us down, then it's yet another spadeful of dirt landing on the coffin in which confidence is lying moribund.not nearly so discouraging as seeing polls month after month of having no votes.
I think that might be something that is a major putoff; all the votes tend to cluster around maybe two or three entries and a good portion receive little to none, as in, maybe one or two votes at most when others could have more than three times that amount. To me, personally, there's no bigger disappointment than putting heart and soul into anything and some months not even see one's name in the running, hehe. So I can't imagine how it could be to some who've put in maybe two or three months worth and get nothing.
However, one of the biggest shields against that is Victoria, Starbeast, Perp Man, DG Jones and other regular reviewers. Ensuring that nobody is forgotten or side-lined. If you get a month where your story goes pretty-much unlisted, you can always know that someone read it and looked for the best in it.
I have to agree with Remedy. I'm always amazed that the reviewers manage to come up with something positive to say about every single story - even those I don't understand. Somewhere I started a thread praising our original reviewer - Perp. Everything I said there still stands of course but it now seems right that I should extend the comments to all the others - thank you very much.
But Karn, that has always been true. There have always been many new members who never go beyond a post or two in their introduction thread. People join on impulse, then decide they really aren't that interested in being part of an online community.
Also, as Juliana said (?), sometimes the entry one slaved over or particularly adores gets nothing, and another does really well. It's an excellent lesson in learning that what people appreciate is not always what you expect. There's nothing we can do to change that (and there's nothing we should do!)
[my bolding] Just to say I have no doubt we all feel this. I've been lucky in that some of my stories have chimed with people on some occasions, but I've also sweated over stories in consecutive months which have each received only a bare couple of mentions. Yes, it is dispiriting. Yes, it is discouraging. And if we have other things going on in our lives dragging us down, then it's yet another spadeful of dirt landing on the coffin in which confidence is lying moribund.
However -- and just to make it clear that although this is written in response to Karn's comment, it is not directed at Karn, but is a general message -- if someone is going month after month after month with few if any mentions, let alone votes, then perhaps the answer isn't for her to give up on the Challenges, but to look critically at her stories and ask herself if there is any improvement which could be made to her story-telling technique or punctuation or grammar. We have the "Improving..." threads which are there to provide feedback. Perhaps we should be making more use of them.
Who, me? Are you sure it wasn't someone else? After all, I hardly bully anyone…I did my first challenge because Chris P bullied me into it three days before closing date.
Ok.. I'll give the 75 word one a go. They are useful little pieces to have around.