I confess I've never heard a scientist say 'Dark Matter explains it'. What I've heard from scientists is that Dark Matter is simply a label for the stuff they don't yet understand. And they tend to get, on the one hand, very frustrated by this stuff they don't understand and, on the other hand, quite excited about how much they've yet to discover.If that is the case, my concern is that they are ascribing properties to a lack of knowledge, rather than a "something". There is a problem with our cosmological model, and rather than just admitting ignorance on the subject, they name their ignorance "dark matter" and "dark energy". I wish I had thought of "dark algebra" in primary school!
I guess I would have more respect for someone who says, "we expect that we will make future discoveries which will explain this mystery, but at the moment, we don't know why..." rather than someone who says, "Dark matter explains it," knowing full well that dark matter is a stand in for a lack of knowledge. The argument takes the same form as a "God of the gaps" hypothesis, and I am reasonably certain those who theorize this would critique a Creationist who used such an argument. Physician (or physicist, in this case), heal thyself!
I apologize if this is a rant, but I like my science to be based on evidence and intellectual honesty, rather than speculation, and I haven't seen anything remotely persuasive in favor of dark matter beyond a description of the problem. And, at least for me, a description of a problem does not a theory make.
I think you may be conflating the sensationalist reporting by 'science' journalists who love to talk up a good mystery with what the actual scientists are really saying. Every scientist I have heard talking about dark matter is anything but glib about it. In my experience every one I've heard has been very honestly baffled by it. Effectively what they are saying is, here's a bunch of phenomenon we can't explain so for the time being we will attribute it to an as yet unknown property of the universe and give that property a name as that makes it much easier to discuss. So of course they know dark matter is "a stand in for lack of knowledge" that's the whole point! And they're doing all they can to fill that gap in their knowledge. And do doubt if/when they do they'll find other stuff they don't understand. No one has claimed that dark matter is a tangible solution to these unknowns.
It's really no different to phlogiston, the name given to an unknown 'substance' to which they could attribute all the properties of fire, or, indeed, the ether that was thought to fill space at one time because waves 'needed' a medium to propagate in. There will always be such things in science until we actually know everything and it seems unlikely that will ever happen.