Thanks to the both of you for your support and kind words. And I'll never turn down a chance for hugs!!
Things like that just make my day.
I fully agree with you, Texane, on the passion that people have for this 'issue' (particularly S/J and S/D relationships). I think it goes to a deeper sociological meaning. Change is uncomfortable for us humans. We like our friends and family to behave in a predictable manner. That makes it easier to say 'we *know* them'. When they start making changes and behaving differently, it can be hard to accept. And easy to think, 'I guess I didn't know them that well at all.' So the best course of action, IMHO, is to realize that people are going to grow and change. Those changes are not all for the worst.
We should be glad that the writers and the actors do not allow their characters to become static and two-dimensional. Imagine how boring the show would be if we could completely predict, with absolute certainty, how each character would respond to every situation. As for me, I love complexity. Complexity is exciting.
Speaking of soapboxes. . .
Renee. . .<learning not to be overly sensitive>
Things like that just make my day.
I fully agree with you, Texane, on the passion that people have for this 'issue' (particularly S/J and S/D relationships). I think it goes to a deeper sociological meaning. Change is uncomfortable for us humans. We like our friends and family to behave in a predictable manner. That makes it easier to say 'we *know* them'. When they start making changes and behaving differently, it can be hard to accept. And easy to think, 'I guess I didn't know them that well at all.' So the best course of action, IMHO, is to realize that people are going to grow and change. Those changes are not all for the worst.
We should be glad that the writers and the actors do not allow their characters to become static and two-dimensional. Imagine how boring the show would be if we could completely predict, with absolute certainty, how each character would respond to every situation. As for me, I love complexity. Complexity is exciting.
Speaking of soapboxes. . .
Renee. . .<learning not to be overly sensitive>