Don't give up, Trona!
You have the right to your opinion, and your own taste, even if you're the only one who feels that way! And in matters of taste, being a minority of one does NOT make you "wrong". It means you're an independent thinker, not one of the herd.
I'd like to know exactly *why* you don't think Jack is sexy/cute [and do you think they're the same thing, or different?]. Not because I'm going to try to convince you you're wrong - but what you tell me will help me understand someone who sees the world differently than I do. [Yeah, I admit it, I'm one of Them. With all due respect, m'am.]
Do you think Jack is repulsive [and if so, what things about him make you go "Ewwww!"?]? Or does he just leave you cold?
[I'm guessing that the things you don't like are the same things that make others go weak at the knees - which is kind of interesting, don't you think?]
Ramble, ramble, ramble, ramble......