Confession: I'm not really sure what chick-lit is...*actually* is.
Never read romance. Never read Bridget Jones Diary. Couldn't get through page one of The Bridges Of Madison County it was so poorly written - but I'd have to say the same of the DaVinci code.
So what's chick-lit again?
Genres geared to women?? Like...romance??? What?
I love books by Jane Austen and George Elliot, Edith Wharton and Toni Morrison: literature written by women but not chick-lit.
I read some current literature/fiction, lots of SF & fantasy (about which I am very picky), mysteries, non-fiction (history, biography, current events, science) and historical novels. I don't like horror very much, but I like atmospheric ghost stories a great deal (The Innocents). Don't like most current best sellers, in fact, but there are terrific books that still come out.
My two favorite historical novelists are Patrick O'Brien (Aubrey-Maturin series) and Dorothy Dunnett (Lymond Chronicles and House of Niccolo), both, alas, deceased. I've also enjoyed Bernard Cornwell's books and C S Forresters Horatio Hornblower novels, alhtough they are not as well written as either O'Brien's or Dunnett's. (I am very fond of tall ship tales in general as well as stories set during the Napoleonic wars).
I read a fair number of the usual English lit suspects: Dickens and Twain especially but also Thackery, Fieldin and 20th century authors like Evelyn Waugh and Graham Green, even Margaret Atwood. I also read a fair amount of poetry, from Shakespeare and Donne to Wallace Stevens and W H Auden.
I love the old mysteries of Dorothy Sayers, Josephine Tey and Nagaio Marsh. I like more recent ones by P.D. James, Lawrence Block and Dennis Lehane. I adore the comic heist novels of Donald Westlake. Another author dear to my heart is John Mortimer, most familier from his Rumpole Of The Baily books but author of other fine novels as well.
I don't think there is ONE specific thing in a book that would turn me off except rampant prejudice or bad writing, anything that was preposterous, silly, out of place or poorly thought out - all examples of poor writing IMO. And there would be more than one instance of that in any given book. Sex per se, violence per se, strangeness per se = not an issue except where its (again) extraneous to the story which is (again) further evidence of poor writing.
I'm mainly intereted in "good", well written books, of almost any genre.
Here are some of my favorite SF & F authors, male and female:
Iain M Banks
Sheri Tepper (selective here, the ones I like I LOVE, some are too polemic)
Vernor Vinge
Ursula K LeGuin
Roger Zelazny
Ray Bradbury
Alfred Bester
Dan Simmons
Samuel R Delaney
Orson Scott Card
John Harrison
Mary Doria Russell
Michael Moorcock (Dancers At The End Of Time, mainly, not the S&S)
John Harrison
Octavia Butler
Theodore Sturgeon
George Effinger
Frederick Pohl
Phillip K Dick
Robert Silverberg
Brian Aldiss
Walter Tevis
Hmm..there's a lot of classic SF authors in there...
And there are many other authors who have moved and/or inspired me with perhaps a single book who are not on the list.
And lest you think I'm too artsy fartsy I have several Star Trek books I will never part with including Ishmael, Strangers From The Sky and the Entropy Effect.
But no chick-lit.
OK, I did read The Joy Luck Club, and I did cry, but my mother was dying. That's as close as I've ever gotten to chick-lit.