But that is the essential difference between the two of us, the emotions we give to her plan to reconquer Westeros.
Unlike you i dont feel like that she has not other choice but to conquer westeros. If she is willing then she could live a somewhat quiet life in the sunset lands (?). indeed she shas given ample opportunity for it, for all we know she could have lived in the home of the dothreaki with the other women of deceased Khals. She could marry some rich dude, and live in some city, she could do tons of things wich do not require her to go conquer some country. But she HERSELF chooses a different path.
As for her legitimate claim, that too is debatable, after all the Targaryen life has been dethroned. Thus removing all their claims to it. Yes you can call the Baratheons usurpers, but that does not change the fact that if she wants westeros (a country wich she barely knows about) back, she will have to fight for it. (at least as far as she knows up till this point).
As for your last comment, that is just out of line. I have no personal gripe with dany, i just say how i read it, if you read her chapters again, you will find that it is not so hard to identify this emotion in it.(if you allow yourelf to look for it.) It is not so hard to back it up with canon. It is all about interpretation of the facts, and that is how i read her action, and comments. I have always said that that is how I feel about it, how i think about it. This is a forum after all where you discuss different opinions about the book. What is the point of a forum otherwise.
It seems to me that you're just having problems with somebody seeing her in that light, instead as some (here follows an exaggeration) 'Angel girl with lots of leadership abilities yet to develop with will peace a plenty and victory against the others'. Truthfully i am certain she will play a major role in defeating the others, she might even succeed in bringin peace to westeros, at least for a while since no peace lasts forever. That doesn't mean she is an angel. If you make an analogy (wich too is an exaggeration) with King Kennit in Liveship Traders, you see that he accomplishes many god things with a rotten character. By no means is Dany 's character as rotten as kennit, she is no angel either.