What aid did he finally offer?
All he accomplished was holding off the execution of his friend a few days, getting his family destroyed, etc..
I do agree with you on one hand, that a man should "help a brotha out", but you knew the first time you read the book going to King's Landing was bad news. I love everyone in my family dearly, but let a one of them become a danger to my child and it is hitting the fan. Your children should come first. If that isn't the case don't have more!
I had never thought of it this way until reading devilsgrin's comment, but if Ned cared more about honor than his family than he deserved his fate. I have always respected Ned for his honor and integrity. If everyone on this board agrees that his family was just a by-product to be thrown carelessly aside then so be it. Ned was not the man I thought him to be.
I know Ned thought long and hard about going to Kings Landing, yet he made the wrong choice. And while I am at it, I say boooo to Robert for being so dungheaded as to think that Ned would make a difference. Robert may have once been Ned's friend and a great man, but he had become a poor excuse for a human being
just fanning the flames