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Raven said:Kiwibird: OK, maybe you don't realise this. But:
First, jokes are generally funny. Nothing you have said in this thread is funny.
Second, laughing at gay people is making fun of their sexuality. Making fun of someone's sexuality is offensive.
It isn't less offensive because you didn't 'go crude'. If anything, it's more so, because you seem to think that homosexuality is funny per se.
And it's that attitude that's immature. It's like saying 'boobs!' and snickering. Most people grow out of that at about age nine.
Third, the adult reaction to someone telling you they have found something you said offensive is to apologise and then shut up. Justifying yourself or accusing people of being oversensitive is eesentially telling them that you regard it as their problem, not yours: adding insult to injury. Plus, it's about as mature as saying 'oh yeah? well, takes one to know one!'
Now, you may say 'why can't I be immature?' and you would be right. You can be as immature as you like. But don't be surprised if people call you on it, or don't pay any attention to you as a result.
1) that is subjective and it is not because you don't have to laugh at loud that it isn't a joke.
2) that is such a generalisation, so we cannot laugh with gay people, well then gay people cannot laugh with straight people, coloured people cannot laugh with kaukasian people and vice versa, hell let us all stop laughing and be done with it. It is not because it is sensitive that you cannot say something or make fun of something, it is natural that we do so, and it is so with everything.
Ah yes the logic, it is easy to twist things isn't it, i did never say that homosexuality was funny per se, unlike you i however believe one can make fun of it and why not, they make fun of us, we all make fun of each other, wether it is because of this thing or that, there will always be some charasteristic wich people will use for jokes. Wether it is someone's sexuality, colour of hair, shape of hair, .... it is all used, sexuality is just one more aspect one can make jokes about , that per se does not mean you are offensive. there are tons of jokes about fat people, skinny people and you are bassicaly saying that all of them are offensive to either anorexic or obese persons. There is a difference between innocent jokes like the ones i written and offensive discriminating ones, i have never not ones discriminated gay people or any other people for that matter. The way you act you people would be offended by everything all the time.
and if you not see the differnce between saying boobs and sniggering (something wich i neve did anyways but perhaps you did) and what i wrote well, then perhaps you need to look in the mirror and rethink about some things.
3) i have never said i minded that people call me upon it, but it is not immature for me to respond when clearly what i have written is not offensive in general, if he for some various reason finds it offensive he can say that, but then he should not expect me to share his viewpoint nor apologize for it.
All things in life or subjective and when i say something that regards him personally and offends him i aplogize, when i am speaking in general terms i do not have too, nor would it be mature to do so for then i would just be given up on my viewpoints for his, again you seem to be suffering of a case of generalisation.
And when did i say that i would mind it if he did not pay me any attention, if he wants to do so it his his decision, it does not matter to me, even so it seems to me you two yourselves seem to be having some issues concerning the matter, that is in fact truly not my problem and no concern of mine, you seem to be looking to hard behind things while i was just making an innocent remark as response to genosis but hey who cares about my opininion right ;-)